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RETURNING TO WHAT IS ESSENTIAL
IN OUR CHARISM AND SPIRITUALITY

1. What is essential in the Rule of St Albert

2. What is essential in Teresian experience and teaching

3. Essentials of the experience and teaching of St John of the Cross

4. What is essential in the charism and spirituality of the Teresian Carmel


2. What is essential in Teresian experience and teaching

43. Our Holy Mother was always innately very gifted for interpersonal relationships and friendship. Her own experience lies at the source of our vocational identity in the Church. She was centred on God, "caught up" by him and in him, the Trinitarian mystery. Her conscious awareness was totally occupied with the Divine Persons (God) which launched in her a strong and vivid interpersonal relationship, immersing her in the life of intra-Trinitarian relationship. She experienced the presence and nearness of the Father. "All one need do is go into solitude and look at Him within oneself". In her Spiritual Testimonies she speaks to us about her experience of the Father who drew near to her and spoke very pleasant words. "Among them, while showing me what He wanted, He told me: 'I gave you My Son, and the Holy Spirit'".

44. By assuming our human nature through the working of the Holy Spirit, the Word of God, our Holy Mother tell us, not only assumed our frailty, work and limitations and thus understands our weakness, but he also reveals the direction and the limits of our divine filiation: our human condition and, because of this, he is a companion and true friend: "We are not angels but we have a body. To desire to be angels while we are on earth.... is foolishness... and in times of dryness, Christ is a very good friend because we behold Him as man and see Him with weaknesses and trials and He is company for us". For this reason St Teresa was opposed to the opinion of many theologians who demanded that one leave aside the humanity of Christ in order to be able to ascend to higher grades of contemplation. She states strongly that there is never need to separate oneself from Christ's humanity.

According to Teresa's teaching, following Jesus under the action of the Spirit also implies accepting our human nature and living it as a grace, as a vehicle of grace. This also means experiencing its limitations and weaknesses. To become like Christ is also to become human, or if you wish, to become a person, to be a person.

45. Naturally, St Teresa teaches us as well that, joined to this process of humanization, there happens a process of divinisation. She also defines for us this combination of the human and divine. All Teresian asceticism searches for liberation and the strengthening of the human, the adornment of the person, so that we can be transformed into signs and instruments of the Man-God and the God-Man: "the holier they are the more sociable they are with their Sisters....be affable, agreeable, and pleasing to persons with whom we deal". Teresa communicates to us her delightful discovering of God and his demands that reach into the core of our human relationships. According to her, the fact that God became human, opens the way for us and makes possible our own humanization, that is carried into the humanization of every structure, always for the service of persons, as Vatican II reminds us: "the human person is and ought to be the beginning, the subject and the object of every social organization". In her project of renewing Carmel, Teresa was totally committed to this alleviation of structures. She managed to pass from a rigid, hieratic attitude, to a gospel humanism: "understand, my father, that I am a friend of intensifying virtue, but not rigour, as will be seen in our houses". St Teresa always defended tolerance and humanism in structures and in applying laws, since "a weighed down soul cannot serve God well".

46. Joined to the experience of Father and Son, St Teresa was aware of the presence and action of the Spirit in her life. "It seems to me the Holy Spirit must be a mediator between the soul and God". He it is who guides the life of persons and communicates the faith to them, as to the Apostles. He accompanies us in prayer and lets us experience the presence of the Father and Son.

47. Her journey, as expressed in the way she lived and much later in what she taught, consisted of prayer, considered as friendship. It is the "means" and "place" par excellence of her experience of God. St Teresa emphasises the importance of encounter with the Lord in silence and solitude, yet, though already in the fulness of union with God, she could write "the Lord walks among the pots and pans". God communicates himself by many paths, not only when we are "off in some corner".
Prayer is the centre and axis of her spiritual message. Understood as friendship it extends to the whole of life, and leads to being God's friends. For this reason, when she presents her teaching on prayer she insists on being: "what we must be like". She also speaks of the recreation of being (fraternal love, detachment, humility equalling truth) as "things that are necessary for those who seek to follow the way of prayer".

48. This approach allowed her to give instruction on life in community, another extremely essential point in the experience and teaching of Teresa. She compares her communities to the group of the Twelve surrounding Christ and calls them the "college of Christ". It is the Lord who "brought us together here". Community arises because the Lord summons it and brings it together for a collective gift to him: "to give ourselves to the All entirely and without reserve". He makes us into relatives of one another. In this way we become a new family: "You will not find better relatives than those He sends you". Right from the beginning, this prayer-as-friendship is centred on Christ Jesus. In him, the "living book", she learned "the truths" of God's nature and our own, of our call to "being conformed" to him. It must be emphasised that Teresian humanism springs from this very point.

49. Consecrated persons are transformed into friends and spouses of Jesus, and must be a gift for others: in the Church and in the world. Prayer, for St Teresa, is not reduced to a few moments, let alone locking us up in ourselves. Thus she educated her nuns to: "dedicate themselves to the good of souls and the increase of His Church". "Those who truly love this Lord and know their own nature", their own self becomes a gift. It is not the gift of self that sanctifies, rather it is in giving oneself that one becomes sanctified. In this way they are "fighting for Christ". Mary is the supreme expression of the Carmelite vocation: "you have such a good mother", we ought to "live our lives as true children of the Blessed Virgin", then the reform is "Our Lady's cause". We are "her Order".

50. This intimate experience of the three divine Persons and their action in ourselves and in history is vivid and nourishing in prayer that is friendship with the Trinity. Humanism rises out of the incarnation of the Word. Communion is a proclamation of the Gospel when it is fruit of the presence and action of the Spirit stimulating the mission to proclaim the Good News of salvation and to live in faith (humility-truth), hope (detachment) and love.

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Taken from the INSTRUMENTUM LABORIS, DISCUSSION DOCUMENT FOR THE 2003 GENERAL CHAPTER: "JOURNEYING WITH TERESA OF JESUS AND JOHN OF THE CROSS,
SETTING OUT FROM ESSENTIALS" DISCALCED CARMELITE GENERAL DEFINITORY, NAIROBI 2001. Full text available at: www.ocd.pcn.net